Today whilst reading a lovely first mums blog, I came across a link to an adoptees blog who had written this post "Adoptees Listen Up", I started to write a comment but realized it was going to be a long one, and that I really felt that I needed a blog post about it on my own blog to say "I have to say I don't agree."
But as one poster commented , whilst there may not be a *legal* right which of course is right, there is a moral right. That I do believe.
When you choose a path that is going to ultimately hurt someone that is a part of you, and their life course change forever, whether you were a willingly participant in that hurt and and change or not, (ie the BSE mums were not WILLING but my Mother was.) Then you absolutely do have a responsibility to tell that person why...why..their life was changed.
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Adopted Jane is a guest blogger on Bridges.